No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn’t promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way. Disappointments are like road bumps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don’t stay on the bumps too long. Move on!
When you feel down because you didn’t get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God has thought of something better to give you. When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There’s a purpose to life’s events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.
You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. It’s better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we have.
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did. You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you’ve never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you’ll never get back
.. I’m finally finding who I am and where I want to be in life. I’ve learned you can’t love someone who doesn’t love themselves..and yet instead, people who love life and accept who they are, are so much more attracive. So here I stand with more lessons learned and an eager heart. Through each year I learn more about the MALE SPECIES haha.. and accept them for what they give to women… and more of what they lack.(jk) But some things/people are just incapable of change.
It’s just hard not to believe those promising words you crave from him.. Along the way, learning there is only so much aid you can offer someone.. the rest is up to them if they choose to follow through.. And when they don’t follow through.. the disappointment leaves a footprint on my heart.